I KNOW - please believe me, but I DO KNOW!!!!! You may read many things - and some people do mean well, but you (and I) know a truth that is seldom told (for it holds us naked in so many ways) but we KNOW the true value of unconditional love - and there is nothing in this life to compare. And those who would "use it" devalue themselves... PLEASE - keep being YOU my dear friend!!!!